Sock,
This is still going on? You're logging any AIM messages with her and sending them in to TNT along with any other names of people who've neomailed you, aim'ed, etc., right? I would also include your petpage url - so TNT can see that this is serious, and you are serious.
If you haven't changed your site preferences yet, I really suggest you do so. I also suggest that you (and anyone else) remove your AIM, MSN, YIM, email, etc. information. That could be how this person got it in the first place - it wouldn't be the first time someone "lurked" or was a member here and got the information just by looking at a profile or a post. It's right there for anyone and everyone to see.
You could try turning your AIM off for the time being too...here's how:
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A. How To Turn the Instant Message Feature Off:
1. From the People menu (Members menu on earlier AOL versions), click Send an Instant Message (or use the CTRL + I keys). The Instant Message window appears.
2. Type in $im_off in the top box.
3. Type an x in the bottom box.
4. Click Send. Any member sending you an Instant Message note will be alerted that you are not accepting Instant Message notes.
If AOL is your ISP, click the Safety icon, you should be able to contact AOL directly. I don't know how much they can do, as people can change their s/n at will...in this case though, this person really wants to sound/look like you.
I don't know how you would turn your MSN off, but I'm sure there's a way.
I would basically have no contact with anyone - come here, keep us updated and keep writing to support, and refer to your original email if you kept a copy of that. I always copy/paste when I write to Support about anything.