Pink Poogle Toy Forum

Do words hurt because they're "swear" words or do words hurt because they were said with malevolence? Some of the most hurtful words people have ever said to me never involved any profanity.

_________________
Don't be afraid to see the truth, even if no one wants you to. Be yourself and not a fool. Don't ever be afraid to speak your mind and listen to criticism. Dissent is keeps our country progressive and willingness to challenge yourself is what keeps yourself ever evolving.

They hurt because they were said with malevolence. Why else would they hurt?

_________________

Set by Medli

I don't swear, so no.

_________________

Well that's the point that was being mades. Words in themselves don't hurt, it's the motive behind their saying.

_________________

I picked sometimes.

Its more than sometimes, but not often.

I have a sufficient amount of control over what I say. So if I do swear, its around friends and classmates. Never younger children.

_________________

. Set by Medusa ♥

I say swear words if they fit into the sentence. I don't go out of my way to swear to sound big, but I never found the point in cennsoring myself to say 'copulate' when another word would do just fine

_________________

Not as much as Igg ;P But I do my fair share of it.
Once, I was having a rather rough time, and I grabbed a notebook and wrote and wrote out this rant (5 and a half pages by hand, but only 2 in MS Word). Afterward, when I'd calmed down, I reread it. I'd used the "F" word (and it's varients) 13 times, and "GD" once. Hmm, I wonder what my favourite swear word is? =P

I'm also known to yell swear words at inanimate objects from time to time (then again, I've also been known to profess my love for the same objects at time too).

_________________

Love is blindness. -- Set by my Secret Santa =D

I swear. Yep.

I swear to myself, when no one's around. I don't swear in public.

But, I usually make up words, and replace the swears with them.

_________________

Every day I inch closer to swearing in front of my dad. I doubt he would be impressed.

_________________

Casting aspersions...

_________________

Let me put it to you this way. I could make priests and nuns have heart attacks if they heard one of my conversations with my friends.

_________________

Set - Sunnie
Blinkie - Chass
Left.
ALL HAIL XENU!!!

I could probably do that without swearing.

_________________

Love is blindness. -- Set by my Secret Santa =D

I don't use bad language. It's disgraceful to the Lord.

Yes, but not as much as I used to.

Mostly I just like having a big vocabulary. I try to come up with the most colorful language possible, just for kicks. Usually that doesn't involve swear words, but sometimes I'll throw a swear word in to indicate exasperation or something. And if I drop something on my toe, you can bet I'm going to swear.

_________________

Formerly Miss Padfoot.

that's exactly what i'm saying. i'm also saying that words only have the power to hurt when that power is given to them, not by the speaker or writer of the words, but the receiver.

i can call somebody names all day long, and they can either care that i'm throwing words at them or not. if they don't care, then my words aren't harmful at all. i'm powerless over them.

on the other hand, i can throw bricks at someone all day long, and whether or not they care, it's still going to hurt them. unless they're dead. i have full power over them.

why do we give swear words power? giving the words power takes away our power. which is why this censorship is wrong.

words AREN'T harmful. it's how you take in those words that can hurt feelings. so do yourself a favor and lighten up. if you don't get shocked when you hear a "bad" word or don't let your feelings get hurt if someone calls you dumb or something, then all words will be harmless to you and you'll have power over the words rather then them having power over you.


"mild" curse words make no sense to me. how is saying "fudge" any different from saying the f word? you're still inserting unnecessary words. you're still implying the "worse" word. and why are certain words considered milder than others? like "crap" versus the s word. it means excrement, no matter how you slice it. so who give a crap which word is used?

_________________